Monthly Archives: June 2018

Grandma’s Mystery

My paternal grandmother died before I was born. But I had my maternal grandmother until I was 16. She lived about a quarter mile from us, so we visited her every day. Grandma was pretty special to me, but I guess most of us feel that way about our grandmother/grandparents.

This is the only picture I have of the two of us together.  My grandmother is wearing the blue dress and standing directly behind me. That’s my mom on the far left. This picture was just shared with me by a cousin in the past year or so. Old family photos are such treasures.

I remember Grandma as being a very kind, gentle woman who always had time for me. This picture was taken at one of our family reunions. She was mother to twelve, so the reunions were a big deal. Note her corsage (perhaps two?), most likely flowers picked from the yards of her children.

Grandma’s house had a screened-in porch on the side, and I remember many summer days spent visiting with her there. (That was where a friend taught me, as a child, to blow bubbles with bubble gum. What an accomplishment that was.)

But, in later years, her family discovered a mystery. She always celebrated her birthday on June 23. Her daughters, while going through papers after her death, discovered that her birth date was actually June 15. And no one knew why she celebrated it eight days later.

So Happy Birthday tomorrow, Grandma, on the date you chose to celebrate.  For whatever the reason.

~These Days Of Mine~

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You Caption It

Yesterday afternoon, Motor Man was in another room of the house and alerted me to this photo op.

I think there could be some pretty creative captions written for this, and I’m letting my readers have that opportunity.

Actually, I’m just letting all of you do the “work”, since I’m fighting a nasty summer cold right now. (Aren’t you glad that, among all the things we share on the internet, a cold isn’t one of them?)

~These Days Of Mine~

Just Another Day On The Beach

Correction: Just Another GORGEOUS Day On The Beach.

It’s been a while few days since I’ve shared wild horse photos, so here are some of my recent favorites.

Although it’s always a treat to see horses by the ocean, sometimes you get the best reflections on one of the “back roads”.

I was excited to, once again, see baby Castano (first discovered on Mother’s Day) with his mom on one of the dunes. Those little legs are really getting long.

You would never guess what had the attention of this harem.  A nearby beach-goer had a radio-controlled vehicle, and although he wasn’t running it near the horses, they were definitely curious.

It couldn’t have been a more beautiful day for photos.

A penny for your thoughts.

And my favorite picture of the day, capturing a playful encounter by the water.

We had the windows down, and our local oldies station (WGH, 1310.  You can listen online too) on the radio. It was amazing to me how many songs we heard related to our surroundings:

“I Can’t Help Falling In Love With You” (‘Like a river flows, surely to the sea’)
“Montego Bay”
“Sitting On The Dock Of The Bay”
“The Swim”
“Brandy” (‘My life, my love and my lady is the sea’)
“Summer Rain” (‘all summer long, we spent dancing in the sand…we sailed into the sunset’)

Just another perfect day on the beach.

~These Days Of Mine~

 

Celebrating

Tomorrow is cause for celebration: it’s Marshall’s birthday. He, Motor Man and I plan to have breakfast at Old Chickahominy House near Williamsburg, as we’ve done every June 16 since 2006.

These photos were taken two years ago at our breakfast (last year, we just had one picture taken of the three of us, and it was a bit  blurry):

We love the ambiance of Chickahominy House. We always get there early, and soon after this picture was taken, the dining area was filled with hungry folks.

The business has a kitty named Melinda, who lives in the gift shop area of the building.  As you can see, there are items available in her likeness.

And it’s tradition that we have someone take a picture of Marshall, Motor Man and me during our visit.

Happy Birthday tomorrow, Marshall!

We’re looking forward to celebrating with you.

~These Days Of Mine~

 

 

 

I Will Laugh With You

If there’s one thing I’ve learned about Motor Man in the 40+ years I’ve known him and the 16+ years we’ve been married, it’s that he has an amazing sense of humor.

Last week, I celebrated my birthday in various ways. It was a really fun week, and today, I’m scheduled to have lunch with yet another friend to celebrate.

Saturday, my friend, Donna, gave me a sweet little “Amish wagon”, which required assembly, so it had been at our shop. Monday afternoon, when Motor Man got home, he asked me to come outside: he said he’d had to tow something home.

Wait for it.

 

I must say that there’s rarely a day that he doesn’t make me smile. At least once.

For our wedding, we chose a reading to recite after the pastor. One line was: “I will laugh with you. I will cry with you“.  There have been very few tears through the years, but there has been (and continues to be) much laughter.

My Motor Man makes sure of that.

~These Days Of Mine~

Just Kitties

It’s been a while since any of the kitties have been featured here on These Days. And apparently, their little feelings have been hurt. So today, it’s all about the kitties:

One day last week, Motor Man had gotten home before I did. When I walked in, this was the cozy scene:

And Gypsy, enjoying a bag …

…as only a kitty can.

Marshall often shares pictures with me of his three kitties. He said he caught Chessie right in the middle of a good “scratching session”:

This is his kitty, Snugg, who obviously knows when his picture is being taken:

And Screamer, who is also a bit of a “ham”:

Hopefully, the kitties will be happy now with a little time in the spotlight. And I must say that I enjoy posting about them much more than…..(eek) snakes.

~These Days Of Mine~

 

Warning: May Not Be Suitable For All Viewers

Now, that I have your attention, I will specify: if you are squeamish about snakes, just exit this blog post now.

You may recall that I have done everything in my power to have blooms this year on my garden phlox. The deer usually mow them down once the foliage is a few inches tall.

This procedure has involved netting, fencing, zip ties and every garden stake I could round up.

And it has worked perfectly to keep the deer away.

But….

Monday evening, Motor Man and I were standing on the deck beside the railing in the above picture. I leaned over to point at the foliage, and he suddenly said: “Get back!”.

Between that old wash tub and the phlox was a huge black snake.  Now, I. Do. Not. Do. Snakes.  I know that (supposedly) black snakes are harmless and good for the yard because they keep other snakes away, yada, yada, yada.  I. Do. Not. Do. Snakes.

This one was entangled in the netting. Badly entangled.

And even though, he was a “good” snake, there was no way that Motor Man and I were going to even attempt to free him from that netting.  We just went right back in the house knowing that the next morning, he’d be gone….one way or the other.

But the next day, he was: still there, still entangled, and still alive.

Ed, a tree expert that Motor Man has known forever, had been in our yard earlier that day taking care of some tree work. So Motor Man called him, and Ed said he’d come take a look at the snake situation.  As it turns out, there was no saving the snake at that point, so Ed put him out of his misery and…..discarded him.

About 30 minutes later, I was in the kitchen and glanced out the window to see how much damage the snake had done to my deer barricade… and I could not believe what I saw.

Another black snake. Just as big. In the very same location. Entangled in the netting. Sheesh.

Another call to Ed, who thankfully was nearby.  He and his buddy, Mike, came right away. This snake hadn’t gotten as entangled as the first, so Mike went right to work to save him. He asked for a garbage bag so he could take him and release him FAR, FAR away. (To which Ed said: “You are NOT putting that snake in the cab of my truck….”)

I recorded the last part of the event (while Motor Man and I watched safely from the deck):

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(The dog Motor Man was referring to in the video is Ed’s little pooch, who did keep his distance from the area.) I sent the video to Ed, and he called Motor Man, laughing.  And Motor Man and I laugh every time we watch it. So thanks to Ed and Mike for the snake removal. And you can bet that I’m watching every step I take in the yard ‘these days’. Because I. Do. Not. Do. Snakes.

~These Days Of Mine~